Friday, May 22, 2009

Sorry Seems to be The Hardest Word

"It's a sad, sad situation ... And it's getting more and more absurd ... What I got to do to be heard? ... What do I say when it's all over? ... Sorry seems to be the hardest word"

It's a shame to think of all the time we waste deterring the pointed finger of blame, when for the most past, that someone that's been wronged just wants to hear "sorry" ...

Some acknowledgement that they've been wronged makes a world of difference; and pathes the way to move on ...

To say sorry means you accept your wrong doing ... To accept you've not done the right thing by the other person, and to apologise for your mistake ... Wow, what a difference that makes to the reciprient in comparison to over worded excuses and unmeaningful justifications ...

You may be just and reasonable for your actions ... But when dealing with others you cannot expect people to see your reason as your reason is your own to see ...

That being said, harbouring resentment towards someone that has indirectly and unintentionally hurt you without voicing your issue ... Expecting one to see your issue ... Your issue is your own; you can't expect it to be seen until told ...

I suppose this can all change with expectations ... What expectations you have of someone and the expectations they may have of you ...

But that's a whole other story ...

And there's only so many hours in the day ... and/or night.

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